Time flies…a glimpse..2007 is almost ending..4 more days to go…
2008 new year is approaching… looking forward to a new page in life path.
hmm…what are my new year 2008 resolution??
Almost 5 months never keep in touch, 2 days ago you buzz me again whereby i was bit shocked out of my way.
I was overwhelmed that finally you walked out from your cave and able to open for discussion. Haha…
Of coz i knew you’ve a mission to be completed, to deliver a goodie to me on behalf of someone. So sweet of her, always remember me. I’ve got a hot pink stuff from Brunei, so lovely!
It’s been quite a long we lost touch, the situation will be bit awkward when one to one together, hence i was asking you out for an outing with my friend to ease all the uncomfy feeling. The outing turn out very delighted! We had some fun and good laugh together like good old time. Surprised me that you were willing tag along with us wandered around in the mall till exhausted situation.
Glad to know that you are back! Finally i can see a happy face with a curve on your face. As i’ve tried my best, to mend back the friendship. ^_^
哪里有彩虹告诉我
能不能把我的愿望还给我
为什么天这么安静
所有云都跑到我这里
看不见你的笑我怎么睡得着
你的身影这么近我却抱不到
没有地球太阳还是会绕
没有理由我也能自己走
冷咖啡離開了杯墊 我忍住的情緒在很後面
拚命想挽回的從前 在我臉上依舊清晰可見
最美的不是下雨天 是曾與你躲過雨的屋簷
回憶的畫面 在盪著鞦韆 夢開始不甜
你說把愛漸漸 放下會走更遠
又何必去改變 已錯過的時間
你用你的指尖 阻止我說再見
想像你在身邊 在完全失去之前
你說把愛漸漸 放下會走更遠
或許命運的籤 只讓我們遇見
只讓我們相戀 這一季的秋天
飄落後才發現 這幸福的碎片
要我怎麼撿
基本上，女人若是太能幹，就會令人乏味，而豪爽的女人又缺乏女性魅力，過於嬌柔的女人照顧起來太累，成熟的女人則世故得令人生厭，天真的女人卻又無知得可笑，活潑的女人太三八，沉靜的女人單調無聊……老天，這世界上難道沒有一個女人能綜合所有的優點嗎？
The most destructive habit = worry
The greatest joy = giving
The greatest lost = loss of self-respect
The most satisfying work = helping others
the ugliest personality trait = selfishness
The most endangered species = dedicated leaders
Our greatest natural resource = our youth
The greatest ’shot in the arm’ = encouragement
The greatest problem to overcome = fear
The most effective sleeping pill = peace of mind
The most crippling failure disease = excuses
The most powerful force in life = love
The most dangerous pariah = a gossiper
The world’s most incredible computer = the brain
The worst thing to be without = hope
The deadliest weapon = the tongue
The two most power-filled words = ‘I can!’
The greatest asset = faith
The most worthless emotion = self-pity
The most beautiful attire = Smile
The most prized possession = integrity
The most powerful channel of communication = prayer
The most contagious spirit = enthusiasm
Last night a friend asked: what is the happiness in life?
He always craves for ultimate happiness in life, but always hard to get to fulfill himself throughout his life.
A person told him, don’t try hard to look for happiness. Happiness always out there for you, just look up…
Happiness just upon you when you are least expected. Let happiness comes to knock your door.
If you are contented, always can simply find your happiness in life.
Today i finally manage to see him in real, after 3 months cold war and heart battlefield. At last, he manage walked out from his cave, open his heart again to say hi to me again!
He sounds so early want to pass me back all the dvd, cds, keep asking me when i heading home from work.
Finally we met up at my place, greet each other, mingled bit. The feeling still bit awkward, i hand in his dvds too. He asked me: did you still practising gaming, still want to play the ps2? if not i gonna take it back and bring it back to brunei. Ah…! since 3 months i hardly touch the play station2, coz it reminded me of him, i feel bit pain. Better hand off !
Phew! I feel relief, finally i still manage mend back the broken friendship, eventhough it won’t be the same as last time. At least i still keep a friend in my list. No more in pain! Nothing owe him in life.
After so long, 3 months over, time flies…
I’ve make my day bit lighter, switch my focus point, move on and ready for new friendship. Mend my broken heart, take all time to get over a person, the healing process went well.
Just out of sudden, i’ve got an email from him yesterday, i just surprised out of his nice gesture, again? He sent his regards to me and concerns on my job hunting process. Hell! when i let go, almost forgot about him, he just act like a rubber band, when he is ok already then toss back. Trying to find way to enter my life again. What kind of wind blow him back to my side? i just can’t let this kind of situation overwhelm me again. Pegs told me not to let him hurt me further, Grace told me don’t ever put hope on him anymore, he might just back to clear off everything before he leave for good. James mentioned maybe that fellow just spaced out, realises his mistaken even if it’s too late, still think i am still useful person. James told me not to give this fellow a chance yet but listen what he has to say. My big sista & brother told me just be nice to him, at the first place he was the one who not reply me, ignored me. Now he takes the step to open up again to look for me again, i shall not being ’small gas’. Thus, just try best to patronize him for last chance. Go beat the iron while it’s still HOT! Just go ahead to see him, see what he tries to tell me, nothing to lose out. Just pass me back the stuff , drop a hello and go off, simple as that. Not to emphasize much details. His sister even warned me not to mention any awkwardness in the past , don’t look back. Move on…Don’t bother much, don’t ever need to think too much out of this. Nothing else i can do, since he takes the first move to ask me out, better take my courage to face the fact.
Wish me luck, i hope miracle will occur!
拥有过，开心过，一起过，玩过，试过，伤心过，痛苦过
these all above still happening in my life tho…
few night ago, i cleaned up my stove area, scrub, washed, rinsed, wiped …the same thing, the same movement, the same place, i recalled of you. You are the first person who volunteered yourself to help me to clean up my stove area after a cook out session. I was so touched! Non of the guy in my gang offer me that before.
You are first person who peeled the prawn shells for me without me asking for it (except my late bf did for me), i was overwhelmed about it. Offers me drinks with choice, etc.
However, these all become a sweet memory for me and will keep in my heart, coz you are no longer allow me to enjoy this privilege.
失望，有时候也是一种幸福，因为有所期待所以才会失望。因为有爱，才会有期待，所以纵使失望，也是一种幸福，虽然这种幸福有点痛。
世上最凄绝的距离是两个人本来距离很远, 互不相识, 忽然有一天, 他们相识, 相爱, 距离变得很近。 然后有一天,不再相爱了, 本来很近的两个人, 变得很远, 甚至比以前更远。
爱情使人忘记时间，时间也使人忘记爱情。
孤单不是与生俱来，而是由你爱上一个人的那一刻开始。
喜欢一个人，是不会有痛苦的。爱一个人，也许有绵长的痛苦，但他给我的快乐，也是世上最大的快乐。
两个人一起是为了快乐，分手是为了减轻痛苦，你无法再令我快乐，我也唯有离开，我离开的时候，也很痛苦，只是，你肯定比我痛苦，因为我首先说再见，首先追求快乐的是我。
凡事皆有代价，快乐的代价便是痛苦。
开始的时侯，我们就知道，总会有终结。 爱情还没有来到，日子是无忧无虑的；最痛苦的，也不过是测验和考试。当时觉得很大压力，后来回望，不过是多么的微小。
有些人注定是等待别人的，有些人是注定被人等的。
缘起缘灭，缘浓缘淡，不是我们能够控制的。我们能做到的，是在因缘际会的时侯好好的珍惜那短暂的时光。
曾经相遇，总胜过从未碰头。
为什么要那么痛苦地忘记一个人，时间自然会使你忘记。如果时间不可以让你忘记不应该记住的人，我们失去的岁月又有甚么意义？
我以为爱情可以克服一切，谁知道她有时毫无力量。我以为爱情可以填满人生的遗憾，然而，制造更多遗憾的，却偏偏是爱情。阴晴圆缺，在一段爱情中不断重演。换一个人，都不会天色常蓝。
爱情要完结的时候自会完结，到时候，你不想画上句号也不行。
同一个人﹐ 是没法给你相同的痛苦的。 当他重复地伤害你﹐那个伤口已经习惯了﹐ 感觉已经麻木了﹐ 无论在给他伤害多少次﹐也远远不如第一次受的伤那么痛了。
爱情,原来是含笑饮毒酒。
爱一个人很难，放弃自己心爱的人更难。
当爱情来临，当然也是快乐的。但是，这种快乐是要付出的，也要学习去接受失望、伤痛和离别.从此,人生不再纯粹。
我们也许可以同时爱两个人，又被两个人所爱。遗憾的是，我们 只能跟其中一个厮守到老。
爱上一个人的时候，总会有点害怕，怕得到他；怕失掉他。
你曾经不被人所爱，你才会珍惜将来那个爱你的人。
不能见面的时候，他们互相思念。可是一旦能够见面，一旦再走在一起，他们又会互相折磨。
只想找一个在我失意时可以承受我的眼泪;在我快乐时，可以让我咬一口的肩膊。
如果我不爱你，我就不会思念你，我就不会妒忌你身边的异性，我也不会失去自信心和斗志，我更不会痛苦。如果我能够不爱你，那该多好。
别离，是为了重聚。
爱火，还是不应该重燃的．重燃了，从前那些美丽的回忆也会化为乌有．如果我们没有重聚，也许我僣带着他深深的思念洽着，直到肉体衰朽；可是，这一刻，我却恨他．所有的美好日子，已经远远一去不回了。
感冒原本是一种很伤感的病。
追求和渴望，才有快乐，也有沮丧和失望。经过了沮丧和失望，我们才学会珍惜。你曾经不被人所爱，你才会珍惜将来那个爱你的人。
如果情感和岁月也能轻轻撕碎﹐ 扔到海中﹐ 那么﹐ 我愿意从此就在海底沉默… 你的言语﹐ 我爱听﹐ 却不懂得﹐ 我的沉默﹐ 你愿见﹐ 却不明白…
爱情本来并不复杂，来来去去不过三个字，不是“我爱你”,“我恨你”,便是“算了吧”、“你好吗？”、“对不起”。
相爱却不能相恋，相恋却不相爱。
我也相信爱可以排除万难；只是，万难之后，又有万难。这是我更相信的。
你的心就是我的海角和天涯，我不能去得更远。我们此生共赴天涯海角，不是游走半个地球，而是人间相伴。
你爱我吗?已经爱到危险的程度了.危险到什么程度? 已经不能一个人生活。
相逢,不是恨晚,便是恨早。
爱情是风花雪月的事，失意的人是玩不起的。
无法厮守终生的爱情﹐ 不过是人在长途旅程中﹐ 来去匆匆的转机站﹐ 无论停留多久﹐ 始终要离去坐另一班机。
离开之后，我想你不要忘记一件事：不要忘记想念我。想念我的时候，不要忘记我也在想念你。
爱情不是避难所,想进去避难的话，是会被赶出来的。
如果没法忘记他，就不要忘记好了。真正的忘记，是不需要努力的。
在爱情的世界里，总有一些近乎荒谬的事情发生，当一个人以为可以还清悔疚， 无愧地生活的时候，偏偏已到了结局，如此不堪的不只是爱情，而是人生。
爱一个人，你是会自爱的。
承诺本来就是男人与女人的一场角力，有时皆大欢喜，大部份的情况却两败俱伤。
爱情不是避难所，想进去避难的话，是会被赶出来的。
最厉害的病毒，是爱和谎言。
我们害怕岁月，却不知道活着是多么的可喜。我们认为生存已经没意思，许多人却正在生死之间挣扎。甚么时候，我们才肯为自己拥有的一切满怀感激？
~By 張小嫻 ~
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